“Hypnosis experiments demonstrate retroactive rationalization, as subjects who opened umbrellas under hypnosis would claim 'it was raining' when asked why they held umbrellas indoors after being dehypnotized”
People who want to become wealthy, take care of others, attract the right people into their life, and accomplish their goals but haven't been able to build real financial traction despite working hard and trying different approaches
Problems This Addresses5
How do I build confidence in business and investment decisions?
I built one of the first digital funnels in 2001, making me a pioneer in digital marketing with over 21 years of experience in the field. Today I run a multi-million dollar business empire with 75 virtual employees — that structure allows me to operate over 10 seven-figure online companies worldwide while maintaining low overhead costs and maximum scalability. I'm also an angel investor associated with Hot Topic Media in California, focusing on seed round investments in Internet and enterprise software companies. My training platform at EbenPaganTraining has over 40 classes and courses — from self-paced audio classes to full ten-week programs ranging from $200 to $3,000. Throughout my career I've worked with Tony Robbins, Sir Richard Branson, and Brendon Burchard, among others. My current mission is helping entrepreneurs identify their unique gifts and build virtual coaching businesses that create both financial success and lasting positive impact.
How do I develop consistent wealth-building habits?
Physical health forms the foundation of the entire success stack. It supports emotional health, which supports mental performance, which ultimately enables business, relationship, and contribution results. Emotions emerge from biological interactions within the body, and mental experience operates within that emotional environment — so if the body is depleted, everything above it suffers. Practically, this means drinking 3-4 liters of pure water daily, starting with a half liter immediately upon waking because sleep is the longest period without hydration. Create total darkness with blackout shades and eye masks for sleep, complete silence with earplugs, maximum comfort with quality bedding, and avoid fluids 2-3 hours before bed. Strategic cheat meals enhance adherence to healthy eating and make indulgent foods taste better when consumed occasionally rather than daily.
What's the best approach to building long-term financial security?
Wealthy people buy assets. Poor people buy liabilities. That's not a moral judgment — it's a mechanical description of how money moves. Assets have intrinsic value, grow over time, and generate cash flow. Liabilities decrease in value and consume your time, money, and energy. The discipline of buying based on genuine needs rather than wants builds something critical: self-control over your financial thinking. Each time you pause and ask 'do I need this or just want it,' you're exercising the same muscle that builds long-term wealth. And money itself has no intrinsic value — it's paper backed by nothing. What matters is the skill of creating value, which can always be exchanged for money.
How do I identify and create genuine value in the marketplace?
A name is the headline, the opening line, the first impression — and everyone judges by it, unconsciously, every time. Consciously naming your concepts can increase their perceived value by 10x to 100x compared to leaving ideas unnamed. Good names promise results, not process or theory — customers only think about the result they want, so your name should deliver that promise directly. Use sound patterns like alliteration, rhyme, and rhythm; rhythm keeps names bouncing in the phonological loop, moving them from electrical memory to chemical memory until they're hardwired. Avoid cute or funny names — buying is serious business and humor doesn't create the emotional connection you need. Spend weeks if necessary, rate options by emotional impact on a scale of 1-100, and always pick the name that's impossible to forget.
How do I overcome limiting beliefs about money and wealth?
Here's what nobody tells you about money decisions: your emotions make them first, and your conscious mind shows up afterward to write the press release. Your mind doesn't control your emotions — your emotions control your mind, using it to get their needs met. After you make an unconscious spending decision, your conscious mind runs what neuroscientists call confabulation: it automatically generates logical-sounding reasons why that decision was necessary. We also have hardwired responses to social influence triggers — reciprocity, authority, scarcity — that fire automatically before we've had a single conscious thought. The path forward isn't to eliminate emotion from decisions; it's to learn to influence your own emotional states and design the conditions that trigger the behaviors you actually want.
Outcomes
Develop unshakeable confidence in their ability to create and manage wealth
Install daily habits that automatically compound wealth over time
Master the mindset of 'Inevitability Thinking' for consistent results
Create systematic value in their chosen field or business
Build genuine wealth across financial, relationship, health, and personal domains
Relevant Clips26
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Hypnosis Experiments Reveal How Humans Retroactively Rationalize
Hypnosis experiments demonstrate retroactive rationalization, as subjects who opened umbrellas under hypnosis would claim 'it was raining' when asked why they held umbrellas indoors after being dehypnotized
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Consumerism Designed to Keep You Feeling Insecure
Consumerism is a philosophy that emerged in the last 100 years, shifting from buying based on needs to buying for self-expression, status, and economic growth—but it's designed to make you feel insecure
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Why People Act Completely Different in Different Situations
Each person is made up of sub-personalities that hand off control like pilots in a plane, which explains why people sometimes act completely different in different situations
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Hackers Beat Security for the Intellectual Challenge
Most computer hackers aren't destructive - they're motivated by the intellectual challenge of beating security systems, which is the same mindset needed for self-development
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The 50% Wrong Money Map That Keeps You Stuck
Most people operate with a money map that's 50% right and 50% wrong, which creates constant frustration like playing a slot machine - always so close you can taste it
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Virtual Teams Provide Objective Performance Visibility
Virtual businesses can actually provide better visibility into employee performance through objective tracking systems rather than physical presence monitoring
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Compare Three-Year Visions to Find Integrated Action Steps
Compare your three-year visions for health, relationships, and success by analyzing both similarities and differences to discover integrated action steps
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Self-Actualization Ends Selfish Hoarding
When you meet your security needs and reach self-actualization, you stop selfishly hoarding and become truly beautiful and admirable, inspiring others
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First Hires Should Free Your Entrepreneurial Time
The first people you hire should take work off your plate so you can focus more time on products and marketing as the chief entrepreneur
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Emotions: The Most Powerful and Addictive Chemicals We Have
Emotions are the most powerful and addictive chemicals in existence, creating instant triggers through repeated emotional patterns
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Technology Relocates Labor to Lowest Cost Globally
Technology relocates manual labor to anywhere in the world, facilitating finding the lowest price at highest quality globally
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Closest Five People Shape Your Thoughts and Behavior
Your social group of 5-10 closest people is the most powerful influence on your thoughts, behavior, emotions, and psychology
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Physical Action Interrupts Destructive Thought Spirals
Use immediate physical action to interrupt destructive thought patterns before they spiral into energy-draining obsession
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Never Make Decisions When Fear Is in Control
Never make any decision about an opportunity when you're in fear because it shuts down the executive center in your brain
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Perceived Success Trap When Bills Are Paid
Once you're paying your bills as an entrepreneur, everyone perceives you as 'made it' regardless of actual profitability
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Self-Actualized People Become Inspiring Not Hoarding
When people reach self-actualization, they become beautiful, admirable, and inspiring—moving beyond selfish hoarding
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Use the Mr Market Metaphor to Simplify Business Decisions
Use Warren Buffett and Ben Graham's 'Mr. Market' metaphor to simplify complex business and market decisions
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Track Daily Expenses With Moving Averages to Reveal True Spending
Track daily expenses with moving averages to smooth out fluctuations and reveal true spending patterns
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Reducing Success Prevention Without Eliminating the Protective Mechanism
You can reduce the power of success prevention without completely eliminating the protective mechanism
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Three Forms of Self-Deception Blocking Wealth and Growth
We constantly engage in three forms of self-deception: deletion, distortion, and generalization
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Lower Needs Are Deficiency Needs Driven by Fear
Lower-level needs are deficiency needs driven by fear and lack—survival, safety, and security
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Secondary Payoffs — Hidden Benefits of Staying Financially Unsuccessful
Secondary payoffs are hidden benefits we get from keeping ourselves unsuccessful financially
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Share Fears Openly to Build Intimacy
Share your fears openly to build intimacy - confide when you're afraid they might judge you
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Influencing Your Own Emotions as the Key to Wealth
The key to wealth creation is learning to influence your own emotions and unconscious mind
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Building Resilience by Facing Fears Deliberately
Building resilience requires deliberately facing your fears rather than avoiding them
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Virtual Business Models Provide Freedom and Scalability
Virtual business models with remote teams provide ultimate freedom and scalability