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How do I overcome limiting beliefs about money and wealth?

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We have all the evolutionary fear mechanisms built for survival threats, but in modern safe environments, we project those fears onto financial situations. Our brains are constantly monitoring for something to fear, and we have a kind of fear quota that gets filled by whatever's available.

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Eben's Answer

Higher self is when you're in positive emotions and logical thinking, feeling like everything will be okay. Lower self is when you're in fear, anxiety, and pessimism, feeling unsafe. You should only make important financial decisions from your higher self peak states. The amygdala acts as an alarm system that triggers fear chemicals when threats are perceived — and in modern safe environments, we project those evolutionary fear mechanisms onto financial situations. When you find yourself in your lower self, acknowledge it without judgment, avoid making any important decisions or communications, and make getting back to your higher self your top priority. Fear blocks wealth creation by triggering survival mechanisms that prevent you from seeing opportunities clearly.

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Reframe

Money beliefs aren't fixed — they're inherited patterns. Once you see them as learned rather than true, you can replace them with beliefs that serve your goals.

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