Content value comes primarily from connecting solutions to customer challenges and formatting for clarity, not just from the information itself
Eben states 'Most of the value isn't in the information itself. Most of the value is in the connecting up of your solution with a prospective customer's challenge'
Communication is mostly misunderstood because people communicate using their own learning style instead of adapting to others' styles
Eben explains 'Most communication is misunderstood...because we've never learned that there are multiple ways to learn, multiple ways to communicate, and because we've only learned our own style'
Saying something four different ways reduces misunderstanding probability from 80% to very small - each repetition cuts misunderstanding in half
Eben provides specific statistics: '80% probability of being misunderstood' for one way, '40%' for two ways, cuts in half again for three ways, and 'very small probability' for four ways
Complete communications must include introduction, conceptual and practical teaching, and action-oriented wrap-up to be self-contained and understandable
Eben outlines the structure: 'introduce your idea...give the conceptual and practical, you teach the theory and you teach the action steps and then at the end you need to wrap up, summarize and get the person to go out and take some action'
Expert InsightEmpowering▶ 5:56 The four learning styles framework from Harvard's David Kolb dramatically increases understanding and decreases miscommunication
Eben credits 'David Kolb, a Harvard expert' and learned it from 'my mentor and friend Wyatt Woodsmall' - this system 'dramatically lower[s] the probability that there will be a misunderstanding'
Why learners need motivation first - they can't hear you until you connect what you're teaching to their desired benefits and avoided pain
Eben explains 'for the why learning style, they can't hear you until you've connected up what you're about to teach them with the benefit or the result that they want' and provides weight loss example with specific pain/pleasure language
What learners need theoretical and conceptual information including science, history, and big-picture understanding
Eben specifies 'give them the theoretical, the conceptual, the history, the science' and suggests 'get online and do a little bit of research about any studies' with weight loss body fat science example
How learners require very specific step-by-step action instructions with exact details about what to do and when
Eben provides specific example: 'Step one, eat this food. Step two, do this exercise. Step three, keep a journal' and emphasizes 'each of the action steps should be very specific...exactly which foods to eat and when'
TeachingEmpowering▶ 10:14 What if learners need immediate action steps and guidance on what to watch for to determine if the technique is working
Eben explains 'what if learners, they need to go out and take an action' and recommends 'tell them what to watch for. Say, as you're taking action, here's what to watch for to see if it's working'