“Human beings are primarily driven by older brain centers (reptilian and mammalian) rather than logical reasoning. Marketing must target these primal drives and emotional responses instead of trying to logically convince people to buy. The most effective marketing gets into rapport with what's already motivating prospects emotionally.”
About Three-Brain Communication Model
The Three-Brain Communication Model is a framework for effective communication that recognizes humans have three distinct brains - the reptilian brain (survival/physical), mammalian brain (emotions/bonding), and neocortex (logical thought) - which evolved on top of each other but operate independently and often in conflict. To communicate effectively, you must address all three brains simultaneously, understanding that the primitive and emotional brains hold the real power and control the logical brain, not the other way around.
Based on Dr. Paul MacLean's triune brain theory, this model is supported by Albert Mehrabian's research showing 93% of communication is non-verbal (55% body language, 38% voice tone, only 7% words), and social psychology research demonstrating how surrounding people unconsciously program our perceptions and decisions.
Misconception
“Effective communication is primarily about logical arguments and the right words”
Real communication power lies in addressing the primitive and emotional brains that control human behavior, with words being only 7% of the equation
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Marketing Must Target Primal Drives Not Logical Reasoning
Human beings are primarily driven by older brain centers (reptilian and mammalian) rather than logical reasoning. Marketing must target these primal drives and emotional responses instead of trying to logically convince people to buy. The most effective marketing gets into rapport with what's already motivating prospects emotionally.
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The Three Brains: When Physical, Emotional, and Logical Conflict
The three brains are your physical brain (oldest), emotional brain (mammalian), and logical brain (neocortex). Conflict happens when they want different things - like physically craving unhealthy food while emotionally feeling guilty and logically knowing it's bad for you.
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Virtual Coach Pre-Launch Free Resources
People tend to be oriented toward one brain type as their primary genius: physical geniuses excel at spatial awareness and hands-on activities, emotional geniuses tune into feelings and relationships, and logical geniuses manipulate abstract ideas with precision.
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Three Brains Three Languages — Reptilian Mammalian and Cortex
Humans have three brains speaking different languages: physical/reptilian brain speaks through actions and physical things, emotional/mammalian brain communicates through feelings and relationships, conceptual brain uses symbols and abstract ideas
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Align Three Brains to Resolve Internal Productivity Conflict
Start by analyzing your three brains using specific examples like food choices. Rate how your physical, emotional, and logical responses conflict on a 1-10 scale. Then work to align these parts by identifying which should be in control and when.
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Body Scan to Sync Conscious and Physical State
Start with body awareness: scan from extremities to core, notice unconscious tension and consciously relax it, check your posture and breathing. Then put awareness on your emotional state. This gets your conscious mind in sync with your body.
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Leaders Must Model the States They Want Teams to Exhibit
'Go first' means leaders must model the emotional states and behaviors they want their team to exhibit. If you want your team to be relaxed and celebratory, you need to demonstrate those behaviors first rather than just telling them to do it.
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Go to Work Where You Lack Confidence and Intuition
Practice regulation in three dimensions: physical (try fasting), emotional (stay calm when triggered), and mental (meditation). These exercises reveal how much we operate on autopilot and help develop conscious control.
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Body Language and Facial Muscles as Emotional Brain Channels
Emotional brain communication happens primarily through body language, facial expressions, voice tone, gestures, and touch - our faces have 80 muscles connected directly to skin specifically for emotional expression
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Physical Brain Communication — Concrete Descriptions That Land
Physical brain communication involves real-world actions and concrete descriptions - examples include 'do 10 sets of 100 pounds, then 25 push-ups, then run a mile' or describing buildings with specific measurements
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Three Types of Habit Pathways — Physical Emotional Mental
The three types of habit pathways are physical freeways (muscle memory and body patterns), emotional freeways (automatic emotional triggers), and mental/logical freeways (thought patterns and neural connections).
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Reptilian Mammalian and Human Cortex — The Three Evolved Brains
Humans have three distinct brain systems that evolved sequentially: the reptilian brain for physical survival, the mammalian brain for emotions and bonding, and the human cortex for abstract thinking and logic.
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Three-Brain Model: Reptilian Mammalian Neocortex in Marketing
The human brain operates as three separate systems: the reptilian brain (survival), mammalian brain (emotions), and neocortex (logic), which constantly fight for control and operate with different currencies
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Childhood Habits That Override What You Know
Most self-communication habits were learned in childhood and continue automatically even when we know better. There's a gap between knowing we should be kind to ourselves and actually doing it consistently.
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Humans Have Three Distinct Brains Stacked on Each Other
Humans have three distinct brains that evolved on top of each other: the primitive brain (brain stem/limbic system), the emotional brain (mammalian brain), and the logical brain (cortex/frontal lobes)
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Three-Brain Framework for Business Decision-Making and Emotional Response
The three-brain framework helps entrepreneurs practice self-regulation across all business areas by understanding different brain functions and how they impact decision-making and emotional responses.
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Extreme Emotions Block Practical Decision-Making
Strong emotions, whether positive or negative, prevent logical decision-making and practical actions - extreme fear triggers fight-or-flight while extreme happiness creates impractical euphoria
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Most Employees Work on Pieces Without Seeing the Whole Campaign
Human communication is built on animal communication foundations - we're essentially chimpanzees 95% of the time with added verbal language, math, and rational thought comprising only about 5%
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Pain Triggers Reptilian Brain — Logic Shuts Down Under Urgency
When people are in pain or high need, they lose higher-level thinking and revert to basic reptilian brain functioning, focusing only on the specific result they believe will solve everything
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Why Rational Communication Confuses and Emotional Communication Lands
Rational, logical, theoretical and abstract communication is inherently confusing and misunderstood, while irrational, emotional, concrete and specific communication is clear and understood
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Reptilian Brain Drives Marketing More Than Logic
Human beings are primarily driven by older brains - reptilian and mammalian emotional centers - not logical reasoning, so marketing must target primal drives rather than rational arguments
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When Your Three Brain Types Pull in Opposite Directions
The three brain types often conflict with each other, causing internal struggle when your physical drives, emotional convictions, and logical reasoning pull you in different directions.
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Incorporate All Three Genius Types Into Every Lesson
Incorporate physical, emotional, and conceptual elements into every lesson. This touches all three genius types and makes your content inherently more interesting to a broader audience.
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Three Brains, Three Motivations: Survival, Happiness, Understanding
Each brain operates in different realms: physical brain wants survival and security, emotional brain seeks happiness and love, logical brain desires understanding and power
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Three-System Approach to Complete Stress Removal
Stress removal requires working on three distinct systems: physical, emotional, and mental systems, each requiring different de-stressing approaches and renewal materials
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Primitive Drives That Underlie Every Human Communication
Most communication is driven by animal drives for survival, status, sex, security, and love - understanding these primitive motivations gives you communication power
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How the Conceptual Brain Speaks in Symbols and Abstractions
Conceptual brain communication uses symbols, words, formulas, and abstract concepts that represent something else - this is the realm of thought and complex ideas
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McClelland Three Motivators Map to Three Brain Types
David McClelland's three core human motivators are power, affiliation, and achievement, which map to the conceptual, emotional, and physical brains respectively
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Three Brain System — Reptilian Mammalian Logical
The three-brain system consists of the reptilian 'me' brain for survival, the mammalian 'we' brain for social bonding, and the logical brain to coordinate them
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Throwaway Brainstorm Ideas Become Immediate Team Mandates
Throwaway brainstorm ideas sound like projects and mandates to team members, causing them to abandon current priorities and start implementing immediately
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Honest Body Language Signals Are Easy to Read Hard to Fake
Honest signals in body language are easy to recognize but difficult to fake - like strong eye contact and confident posture that indicate genetic fitness
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Survival and Reproduction Fears Drive All Customer Pain Urgency
All customer pain and urgency ultimately stem from survival and reproduction fears that trigger reptilian brain responses filled with emotion and fear.
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Three Habit Freeways — Physical, Emotional, and Mental Pathways
Habits create three types of 'freeways' in your system: physical, emotional, and mental roadways that determine your automatic responses and behaviors
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Three-Brain Model — Reptilian, Mammalian, Neocortex
The three-brain model addresses the reptilian brain (physical/survival), mammalian brain (emotional/bonding), and neocortex (logical/abstract thought)
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Physical Health as Foundation for Emotional and Business Performance
Physical health forms the foundation layer of a three-tier pyramid that supports emotional and mental performance, which then enables business success
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The Phonological Loop Holds Sounds in Memory for Five Seconds
The phonological loop is an audio buffering system that holds sounds in electrical memory for about 5 seconds while the brain decides their importance
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The Performance Gap Between A Players and C Players
Communicate using three modalities - physical, emotional, and logical - to dramatically reduce misunderstanding and reach different types of learners
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Teaching Across All Three Realms to Reach Every Learner
Cover all three realms when teaching to communicate with all parts of the human and reach people who tend to be more physical, emotional, or logical
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Business Relationships Need Attention Connection Commitment
Business relationships require three sequential steps: attention, connection, and commitment - all happening at an emotional and unconscious level
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Channel Switching to Maximize Quality Each Moment
Change channels by switching completely between physical, emotional, or logical activities to maximize the quality of each moment and work output
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Saying It Four Ways Cuts Misunderstanding in Half Each Time
Saying something four different ways reduces misunderstanding probability from 80% to very small - each repetition cuts misunderstanding in half
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Three Brains Operate Well Alone but Poorly Together
The three brains operate very efficiently individually but are not well connected to each other, creating inner conflict when they disagree
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Working With Your Chimp Mind Against Resistance
Entrepreneurs must understand and work with their 'human chimpanzee' mind, which often resists the very actions needed for business success
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Three-Brain Analysis for Diagnosing Internal Friction
Use the three-brain analysis technique to identify friction by rating physical, emotional, and logical responses to conflicting choices
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Why Communication Gets Misunderstood Every Time
Communication is mostly misunderstood because people communicate using their own learning style instead of adapting to others' styles
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Three-Brain Conflict Creates Internal Energy Friction
Internal friction is created when your three brains (physical, emotional, logical) are in conflict, causing inefficient energy burn
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Label Brainstorms vs Projects When Communicating
Leaders must distinguish between brainstorms and projects when communicating, explicitly labeling the type of input they're sharing
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Primitive and Emotional Brains Control the Thinking Brain
The primitive and emotional brains are where all the real power lies and they control the thinking brain, not the other way around
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Reptilian Brain Governs Physical Survival Responses
The reptilian brain evolved to deal with the physical world, managing fight or flight responses and keeping the body alive
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Unconscious Decision-Making Followed by Post-Hoc Justification
Most human decision-making happens unconsciously, and people create stories afterward to justify decisions already made
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Mammalian Brain Drives Emotional Bonding and Tribe
The mammalian brain handles emotions and allows bonding with others and feeling affection toward people in our tribe
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Integrating All Three Brains Improves Productivity
Learning to integrate and use all three brains together makes productivity and time management significantly easier
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Body Language Accounts for 93 Percent of All Communication
Body language accounts for 93% of all communication - 55% facial and body expression, 38% voice tone, only 7% words
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Financial Decisions Made Unconsciously Then Rationalized
Most financial decisions are made unconsciously and then rationalized by the conscious mind through confabulation
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Women's Natural Advantage in Reading Body Language
Women are naturally up to 10 times better at sending and receiving body language communications than men
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Neocortex Unlocks Abstract Thought Beyond Emotion
The human neocortex enables processing beyond physical and emotional into pure abstract thought space
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Three Kinds of Brain Require Different Self-Regulation Approaches
The three kinds of brain require different approaches to self-regulation in business
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Three-Brain Awareness Enables Business Self-Regulation
Three-brain awareness enables practicing self-regulation across all business areas
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Business Friendship Model Four-Step Framework
The Business Friendship Model is a four-step framework that mirrors how humans naturally build friendships: attention (getting them to pay attention), connection (finding commonality), commitment (making an emotional commitment), and action (acting on that commitment). This approach treats customers as individuals rather than corporate targets.
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Shadow Brain Type — Your Achilles Heel
Your shadow brain type is your weakest area - the one of the three that you pay least attention to and struggle with most. Everyone has a primary type, secondary type, and shadow type. For example, logical-emotional combinations typically have physical as their shadow, making them disorganized and disconnected from their body.
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Three Questions to Understand Your Customer's Deepest Psychology
Ask three key questions: What is your customer's biggest fear or frustration right now? What is your customer embarrassed to admit even to themselves? What's the conversation going on in their head? Remember that most customer thoughts are irrational, so focus on understanding their emotional rather than logical drivers.
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Three Evolutionary Brains in One Skull
The three brain types are the reptilian brain (physical), mammalian brain (emotional), and human cortex (logical). The reptilian brain handles survival, fight-or-flight, and physical interaction. The mammalian brain processes emotions and social bonding. The human cortex deals with abstract ideas and rational thinking.
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Three Brains Evolved Separately and Pull You in Different Directions
The three brain types evolved at different times for different purposes and don't naturally work together well. When your physical drives want one thing, your emotions feel another way, and your logic knows something different, you experience internal conflict as you're pulled in three directions simultaneously.
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Three-Brain Conflicts Between Body, Heart, and Mind
The three brains aren't well connected to each other, creating conflicts where what we want physically, emotionally, and logically pull us in different directions. We experience heart versus mind conflicts, or feel physically drawn to something while emotionally ashamed and logically knowing it's bad for us.
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Triune Brain Model and the Unconscious Battle Behind Every Purchase
According to Dr. Paul MacLean's triune brain model, humans have three brains: reptilian (survival), mammalian (emotions), and neocortex (logic). These brains constantly fight for control and operate with different currencies, making decision-making an unconscious battle between competing motivations.
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Frameworks Work with Human Biological Wiring
Frameworks are skeletons or structures that you hang your content on, based on human biological wiring and psychological processing. They make information highly accessible, easier to understand, and more attractive to audiences by working with how humans are naturally wired to receive information.
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McClelland's Three Core Human Motivators Explained
David McClelland identified three core motivators: power (desire for control and influence), affiliation (need for love, approval, and social connection), and achievement (drive to accomplish goals and avoid failure). These map to the conceptual, emotional, and physical brains respectively.
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Three-Brain Model for Full-Spectrum Communication
The three-brain model addresses the reptilian brain (physical/survival), mammalian brain (emotional/bonding), and neocortex (logical/abstract thought). When creating content, you should cover all three realms to communicate with different types of people and all parts of human psychology.
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Three Modalities That Cut Misunderstanding to Near Zero
Physical communication addresses actions, gestures, and body language. Emotional communication focuses on feelings and synchronizing emotional states. Logical communication explains concepts, theories, and step-by-step reasoning. Using all three dramatically reduces misunderstanding.
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Three Brains Three Communication Languages
Humans have three brains that communicate differently: the physical/reptilian brain that speaks through actions and real-world things, the emotional/mammalian brain that communicates through feelings and relationships, and the conceptual brain that uses symbols and abstract ideas.
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Why Daily Exercise Matters for Business Performance
Exercise improves brain function, memory, emotional function, and energy levels. More importantly, not exercising acts as a depressant. Humans are designed to move, and that's when we feel most healthy and alive. Daily aerobic exercise for 20-30 minutes provides these benefits.
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Emotions Can Only Be Triggered — Never Affected Directly
Use three different modalities - physical, emotional, and logical - to communicate each concept. This reaches 80%+ understanding compared to 20% with just one method. Also assume misunderstanding is the rule and focus on eliminating it rather than just being understood.
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One-to-One Communication Builds Real Trust with Customers
One-to-one communication activates emotions and different parts of the brain compared to lecture-style communication. Since customers usually consume content alone, speaking directly to them builds credibility, trust, and creates a real experience of friendship.
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Reaching the Emotional Brain Through Tone Touch and Expression
Communicate with the emotional brain through body language, facial expressions, voice tone, gestures, and touch. Use excited, happy, or sad tones, smile, laugh, cry, or offer comforting hugs. When using words, ask about feelings and share emotional states.
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Why Abstract Marketing Messages Kill Customer Connection
Rational, logical, theoretical communication is actually confusing and misunderstood because it's abstract. Customers respond better to irrational, emotional, concrete communication that triggers specific recognition and feelings.
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Emotional Flexibility as an Entrepreneurial Superpower
Eben Pagan teaches that emotional flexibility is a superpower for entrepreneurs. It involves practicing self-regulation across three different brain types and learning to navigate uncertainty with grace rather than resistance.
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Genius-Level Marketing Connects Immediately With Customer Problems
The three brains are the primitive brain (brain stem and limbic system), the emotional brain (mammalian brain), and the logical brain (cortex and frontal lobes). They evolved on top of each other but don't communicate well.
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Mapping Prospect Fears Three Levels Deep
Identify three to five problems, frustrations, or fears, then find three deeper implications within each one. This systematic approach gives you powerful emotional triggers to reference during your closing.
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Primitive Brain Controls Behavior Then Rationalizes It
The primitive and emotional brains control behavior, not the logical brain. These older brains handle survival needs, emotions, and social drives, then make the rational brain rationalize their decisions.
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Why Women Read Body Language Ten Times Better Than Men
Women are naturally up to 10 times better at reading body language than men. They use these skills to quickly assess if a man 'gets it' and has the confidence and status they're attracted to.
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High-Status Body Language — Chest Out Eyes Forward
High status body language includes chest out, shoulders back, slow controlled movements, strong eye contact, taking up space, and maintaining your power without seeking approval.
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Three-Part Follow-Up Structure That Leads Prospects to Your Offer
Use a three-part structure: introduction and theory (the why and what), specific action steps (the how and what if), then your product offer. This ensures complete communication while naturally leading prospects to your solution.
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93 Percent Non-Verbal: The Research Behind Communication
According to research, 93% of communication is non-verbal: 55% facial and body expression, 38% voice tone, and only 7% actual words.
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Eye Contact to Intimacy: The Universal Mating Sequence
The universal sequence is: eye contact, verbal contact side-by-side, face-to-face interaction, hand-to-arm contact, arm around waist, mouth-to-mouth contact, then escalation to intimacy.
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Voice Tone Carries Emotional Content in Self-Talk
The voice tone is what carries the emotional content. And when you're talking to yourself in your head, if you're using a harsh or negative or authoritarian or punishing or angry or critical tone, you're going to make yourself feel bad
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Humans Are Driven by Reptilian and Mammalian Brains Not Logic
Human beings are primarily not rational, logical creatures. We're primarily driven by our older brains, by our physical, reptilian, lizard brain and by our newer but still very old mammalian, emotional kind of brain.
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Connect People on Unusual Shared Interests
Whether you like the idea that you need to eat or not, you're still going to be doing it every day, several times a day. So with status, there's a healthy way to do it and there's an unhealthy way to do it
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Frameworks Make Information Accessible Attractive and Understandable
When you use one of these frameworks, it makes the information highly accessible to another person. It makes it easier to understand. It makes it more attractive.
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The Old Brains Are Where All the Real Power Is
what we don't realize is that these older brains are where all the power is and those old brains are the ones that are really controlling us
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Communicating Across All Three Realms Reaches Everyone
When you cover all three realms, you'll be communicating with all parts of the human, and you'll be communicating with all of the people.
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Past and Future Exist Only as Mental Perceptions
Your past, quote unquote, is just a set of perceptions and memories, and your future is kind of just a set of imaginations and images
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Body Language First: Why Actions Outrank Words in Attraction
if your body language isn't on point nothing that you do or say will make her feel attraction for you
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Knowing vs Doing Gap in Self-Communication
the difference between knowing and doing creates a real gotcha there