5 Most useful Tips for Body Language 2020 Part 1 | David DeAngelo ...
Body language expert David DeAngelo teaches the fundamental principles of using body language to create attraction and navigate the human mating sequence. The training covers status communication, sexual threat positioning, and the specific steps of courtship.
Key Moments
How to Project High Status Body Language -- Transform your physical presence to communicate confidence and attract women
Lean Back as a Physical and Psychological Principle
Lean back physically and psychologically - don't lean forward seeking approval like insecure men do on dates
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Approval-Keeping Body Language Signals Quiet Confidence
Use 'approval keeping' body language instead of approval giving or seeking - crossed arms, steady gaze, not changing posture based on others' reactions
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Honest Body Language Signals Are Easy to Read Hard to Fake
Honest signals in body language are easy to recognize but difficult to fake - like strong eye contact and confident posture that indicate genetic fitness
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The High-Status Greeting That Signals Confidence, Not Need
The greeting 'Hey what up' with head back and raised eyebrows communicates high status and familiarity without seeking approval
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Body Language Accounts for 93 Percent of All Communication
Body language accounts for 93% of all communication - 55% facial and body expression, 38% voice tone, only 7% words
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- How-To
How to Project High Status Body Language -- Transform your physical presence to communicate confidence and attract women
- Teaching▶ 102:35
The Universal Human Mating Sequence Step by Step
The universal human mating sequence: eye contact, verbal contact side-by-side, face-to-face interaction, hand-to-arm contact, arm around waist, mouth-to-mouth contact, then escalation to intimacy
- Teaching▶ 61:25
Sexual Threat: Why Confidence Creates Tension and Attraction
The 'sexual threat' concept - being perceived as a sexually powerful, confident man creates both attraction and tension because women unconsciously know the investment risk
- Teaching▶ 88:21
Honest Body Language Signals Are Easy to Read Hard to Fake
Honest signals in body language are easy to recognize but difficult to fake - like strong eye contact and confident posture that indicate genetic fitness
- Teaching▶ 82:57
Approval-Keeping Body Language Signals Quiet Confidence
Use 'approval keeping' body language instead of approval giving or seeking - crossed arms, steady gaze, not changing posture based on others' reactions
- Teaching▶ 30:43
Independence in Body Language: Moving on Your Own Terms
Independence in body language means not following others' movements, pausing before going along, and doing your own thing consistently
- Teaching▶ 50:44
High Status Body Language — Chest Out Shoulders Back Eye Contact
High status body language includes chest out, shoulders back, slow movements, strong eye contact, and taking up space confidently
- Teaching▶ 71:30
The High-Status Greeting That Signals Confidence, Not Need
The greeting 'Hey what up' with head back and raised eyebrows communicates high status and familiarity without seeking approval
- Teaching▶ 22:33
Body Language Accounts for 93 Percent of All Communication
Body language accounts for 93% of all communication - 55% facial and body expression, 38% voice tone, only 7% words
- Teaching▶ 76:48
Lean Back as a Physical and Psychological Principle
Lean back physically and psychologically - don't lean forward seeking approval like insecure men do on dates
- Teaching▶ 22:00
Women's Natural Advantage in Reading Body Language
Women are naturally up to 10 times better at sending and receiving body language communications than men
- Answer▶ 22:00
Why Women Read Body Language Ten Times Better Than Men
Women are naturally up to 10 times better at reading body language than men. They use these skills to quickly assess if a man 'gets it' and has the confidence and status they're attracted to.
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- Answer▶ 71:41
Head Back, Eyebrows Up: High-Status Greeting Mechanics
Use 'Hey what up' with your head back slightly and eyebrows raised. This communicates high status and familiarity without seeking approval or acting like you want something from them.
- Answer
High-Status Body Language — Chest Out Eyes Forward
High status body language includes chest out, shoulders back, slow controlled movements, strong eye contact, taking up space, and maintaining your power without seeking approval.
- Answer▶ 61:25
What It Means to Be a Sexual Threat in Attraction
Sexual threat means being perceived as a sexually powerful, confident man. This creates both attraction and tension because women unconsciously recognize the potential investment risk of being with someone sexually powerful.
- Answer▶ 22:20
93 Percent Non-Verbal: The Research Behind Communication
According to research, 93% of communication is non-verbal: 55% facial and body expression, 38% voice tone, and only 7% actual words.
- Answer▶ 102:35
Eye Contact to Intimacy: The Universal Mating Sequence
The universal sequence is: eye contact, verbal contact side-by-side, face-to-face interaction, hand-to-arm contact, arm around waist, mouth-to-mouth contact, then escalation to intimacy.
- Quotable▶ 89:06
Body Language as the Primary Signaling Mechanism
your body language is very possibly your most important signaling mechanism to women and it tells them everything they think they need to know instantly
- Quotable▶ 6:53
Does He Get It: What Women Assess Unconsciously
does he get it does he get it and I just want you to tell me with your unconscious your intuition does he get it
- Quotable▶ 25:50
Body Language First: Why Actions Outrank Words in Attraction
if your body language isn't on point nothing that you do or say will make her feel attraction for you
- Quotable▶ 68:52
The Sexual Threat Mindset as Inner Game Foundation
I am a sexual threat I am a dangerous man for a woman to be alone with I am all man and I want you
- Quotable▶ 76:51
Don't Lean Psychologically: The DeAngelo Principle
don't lean psychologically David DeAngelo says don't lean physically Fat Joe says lean back
- Question▶ 74:39
The 93/7 Split: Why Words Are the Smallest Part of Communication
What percentage of communication is body language vs words?
- Question
How to Greet Women to Signal Confidence
How should you greet women to show confidence?
- Question▶ 61:15
What Sexual Threat Actually Means in Attraction
What does sexual threat mean in attraction?
- Question▶ 24:03
Why Women Use Body Language Tests on Men
Why do women test men's body language?
- Question▶ 50:52
What High-Status Body Language Actually Looks Like
What is high status body language?
- Question▶ 97:53
The Universal Human Mating Sequence Step by Step
What is the human mating sequence?
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Expert: David DeAngelo
Body language and attraction expert, author
Summary
The Foundation of Attraction Communication
David DeAngelo opens by demonstrating how instantly recognizable 'getting it' is through body language. Using live volunteers, he shows how simple posture changes create dramatic transformations in perceived status and attractiveness.
The Science Behind Body Language Dominance
Research reveals that 93% of communication is non-verbal, with women being up to 10 times better at reading these signals. This creates the need for men to master honest signals that are difficult to fake.
Understanding the Sexual Threat Dynamic
The concept of sexual threat explains why confident, sexually powerful men create both attraction and tension. This biological programming stems from women's investment risks in mating choices.
Mastering the Universal Mating Sequence
DeAngelo breaks down the specific steps of human courtship from eye contact through consummation. Understanding this sequence allows men to recognize where they are and what comes next in the attraction process.
Counterpoint
Claim: “Body language is just another form of communication like words or math with symbols and syntax to learn”
Reframe: Body language is direct communication - the symbol IS the thing itself, not an abstraction
Unlike words which represent concepts, body language directly communicates the actual state and intention
Claim: “Being nice and friendly with your body language will make women like you”
Reframe: Your objective is attraction, not being perceived as nice - you want to trigger that complex of physical and emotional responses
Nice guy body language kills attraction instantly by communicating low status
Claim: “Mirror and match a woman's body language to build rapport and attraction”
Reframe: Don't try to build rapport to get attraction - instead recognize when she's mirroring you as a sign you're on the right track
Traditional rapport techniques work in business but backfire in attraction because attraction requires status differential
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