Training Session2013-12-16

Create Positive Culture In Your Business

Eben Pagan reveals how traditional corporate titles can destroy employee motivation and create toxic entitlement cultures. He explains why most companies unknowingly sabotage their teams and shares how leaders can model the culture they want to see.

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Key Moments

Relevant Clips16

  • How-To

    How to Create Positive Company Culture -- A leadership approach to building healthy workplace culture through behavioral modeling rather than formal programs

  • Teaching

    How Much the Virtual CEO Program Costs

    Negative behaviors become self-perpetuating even after the original cause is removed. Like the monkey experiment where new monkeys who never experienced punishment still enforce the same restrictions, workplace cultures can maintain toxic patterns long after the original problem is gone.

  • Teaching

    Culture Is a Reflection of the Leader's Own Behavior

    Company culture is simply a reflection of the leader's behavior. If you're stuffy and play power games, you'll attract stuffy people. If you're open-minded and supportive, that's the culture you'll create. Leaders must 'go first' in modeling the behaviors they want to see.

  • Teaching

    Leaders Must Model the States They Want Teams to Exhibit

    'Go first' means leaders must model the emotional states and behaviors they want their team to exhibit. If you want your team to be relaxed and celebratory, you need to demonstrate those behaviors first rather than just telling them to do it.

  • Teaching

    Why Business Titles Create Entitlement Instead of Accountability

    Business titles create entitlement because they give people symbolic power they can use to claim special treatment. When someone says 'I'm the CEO' or 'I'm the director,' they're using the title rather than their value to justify authority.

  • Teaching

    How Random Titles Rob Employees of Self-Worth

    Random titles can rob employees of self-esteem, self-worth, growth, and motivation by putting them in a symbolic cage. Titles make people dependent on external validation rather than developing real capabilities and value creation skills.

  • Teaching3:38

    Company Culture Reflects the Leader's Behavior Directly

    Company culture is simply a reflection of the leader's behavior - if you're stuffy and play power games, you'll attract stuffy people who play political games

  • Teaching

    Negative Workplace Behaviors Persist Long After the Cause Is Removed

    Negative workplace behaviors become self-perpetuating even after the original cause is removed, like the monkey experiment with the water spray

  • Teaching2:32

    Random Titles Rob Employees of Self-Worth and Motivation

    Giving employees random titles can rob them of self-esteem, self-worth, growth, and motivation by putting them in a symbolic cage

  • Teaching2:10

    Why Business Titles Create Entitlement

    Traditional business titles create entitlement by giving people symbolic power they can use to claim special treatment

  • Teaching4:11

    Leaders Who Celebrate and Rest Signal Permission to Their Teams

    If you celebrate with your team and take relaxation days when needed, they will mirror those behaviors naturally

  • Teaching

    Leaders Must Go First in Modeling Desired Emotional States

    Leaders must 'go first' in modeling the emotional states and behaviors they want their team to exhibit

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  • Quotable2:32

    Titles Can Rob Employees of Self-Worth You Thought You Were Giving

    I think you can rob them of self-esteem, self-worth, growth, motivation. I think you can rob them of these things by giving them something that you thought was useful.

  • Quotable4:38

    Go First — Model the State You Want Your Team to Mirror

    You go first. And what they mean there is if you want someone to go into an emotional state, you go into that state first and then the other person will go there.

  • Quotable

    Entitlement Culture Kills Business — Entrepreneurs Despise It

    Do you like interacting with people that feel a sense of entitlement about anything? No. Entrepreneurs, we hate that stuff.

  • Quotable3:43

    The Culture Typically Is Whatever You Are

    The culture typically is whatever you are.

Entities Touched

Summary

The Hidden Danger of Business Titles

Eben reveals how traditional corporate titles create entitlement by giving people symbolic power they can exploit. He explains that the word 'entitlement' literally contains 'title' and shows how well-meaning leaders accidentally rob employees of self-worth and motivation through random title assignment.

Culture Reflects Leadership

Challenging conventional wisdom about corporate culture programs, Eben argues that culture is simply whatever the leader is. He demonstrates how leaders who are stuffy and political attract similar people, while open-minded leaders who roll up their sleeves create collaborative environments.

The Go First Principle

Drawing from neural linguistic programming, Eben teaches that leaders must model the emotional states they want to see rather than instructing others to change. He shows how celebrating, relaxing, and working hard as a leader naturally creates those behaviors in the team.

Why Negative Patterns Persist

Using the famous monkey experiment, Eben illustrates how workplace dysfunction becomes self-perpetuating even after the original cause disappears. This demonstrates why leaders must be extremely careful about the behavioral patterns they establish, as they can outlast the leader themselves.

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Counterpoint

Claim:Giving employees titles and formal positions motivates them and creates clear hierarchy

Reframe: Titles create entitlement and can actually rob people of self-worth, growth, and motivation by making them dependent on symbolic power

The word 'entitlement' contains 'title' - when people use titles to justify authority ('I'm the CEO'), they're clinging to symbols rather than earning respect through value creation

Claim:Company culture is created through formal programs, mission statements, and structured initiatives

Reframe: Culture is simply whatever the leader is - it's a direct reflection of the leader's behavior and emotional states

If you're stuffy and play power games, you attract stuffy political people. If you're open-minded and roll up your sleeves, that's the culture you create. Neural linguistic programming shows you must 'go first' in emotional states

Topics

Coaching Strategies

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Business Frameworks

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Common Mistakes

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