Teaching2014-09-03·18 min

Learning From Your Customer

Learning From Your Customer

Eben Pagan reveals why most new products and businesses fail and shares his proven methodology for creating products that sell themselves by learning directly from customers. He teaches specific interview techniques to uncover customers' deepest fears, frustrations, and desired outcomes, plus how to identify 'power words' that dramatically improve marketing effectiveness.

Learning From Your Customer

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How to Interview Customers to Create Products That Sell Themselves -- A systematic approach to learning directly from customers to create products and marketing that resonates

Entering the Conversation Already in the Customer's Head

Listen for the conversation customers are having in their head - you want to enter into their existing mental conversation rather than trying to pull them into yours

12:39

Power Words and Power Phrases in Customer Interviews

Pay attention to 'power words' and 'power phrases' - highly emotional, distinctive words that emerge as patterns when interviewing multiple customers, which have massive value in products and marketing

13:36

Daily Customer Conversations as a Business Foundation

Talk to at least one prospective customer per day, ideally three or more, and do it earlier in the day because understanding customers deeply is what creates both effective products and marketing

11:09

The fastest, cheapest way to test your niche is to have live conversations with real prospective customers who have real needs - they will tell you for free what they will pay money for

1:35

Emotional Power Words Only Emerge After Multiple Customer Conversations

Patterns of emotional power words only emerge after talking to several people - you can't see a pattern from just one conversation, but these patterns become the foundation for products that sell themselves

11:55

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  • How-To

    How to Interview Customers to Create Products That Sell Themselves -- A systematic approach to learning directly from customers to create products and marketing that resonates

  • Teaching

    Most Products Fail Because Creators Build What They Think Customers Want

    Most new products and businesses fail because entrepreneurs don't understand exactly what customers want and need - they create products based on what they think customers should want rather than what customers actually desire

  • Teaching7:16

    Biggest Fear and Dream Scenario — Two Questions for Every Customer

    Ask customers two critical questions: 'What's your biggest fear or frustration?' and 'What's your dream scenario or outcome?' - these reveal both their irrational emotional drivers and their specific desired results

  • Teaching11:55

    Emotional Power Words Only Emerge After Multiple Customer Conversations

    Patterns of emotional power words only emerge after talking to several people - you can't see a pattern from just one conversation, but these patterns become the foundation for products that sell themselves

  • Teaching2:37

    Most Entrepreneurs Focus on Setup Over Revenue

    Most successful information product marketers have a lot of direct one-on-one interaction with their prospective customers, but this requires overcoming fear of rejection, shyness, and other personal issues

  • Teaching11:09

    Daily Customer Conversations as a Business Foundation

    Talk to at least one prospective customer per day, ideally three or more, and do it earlier in the day because understanding customers deeply is what creates both effective products and marketing

  • Teaching1:35

    The fastest, cheapest way to test your niche is to have live conversations with real prospective customers who have real needs - they will tell you for free what they will pay money for

  • Teaching13:36

    Power Words and Power Phrases in Customer Interviews

    Pay attention to 'power words' and 'power phrases' - highly emotional, distinctive words that emerge as patterns when interviewing multiple customers, which have massive value in products and marketing

  • Teaching9:59

    Pre-Qualified Prospects Answer Personal Questions Freely

    People will answer personal questions if they think it's going to get them what they want - the key is finding pre-qualified prospects who have already raised their hand indicating they need help

  • Teaching12:39

    Entering the Conversation Already in the Customer's Head

    Listen for the conversation customers are having in their head - you want to enter into their existing mental conversation rather than trying to pull them into yours

  • Answer15:07

    Where to Deploy Power Words for Maximum Impact

    Power words are highly emotional, distinctive words and phrases that emerge as patterns when interviewing multiple customers. Use them in your product titles, email subject lines, and marketing to create instant emotional connection.

  • Answer

    Why Products Fail Before They Launch

    Most fail because entrepreneurs don't understand exactly what customers want and need. They create products based on what they think customers should want rather than what customers actually desire and will pay for.

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  • Answer5:27

    Two Questions That Surface Customer Fears and Dream Outcomes

    Ask 'What's your biggest fear or frustration?' and 'What's your dream scenario or outcome?' These questions reveal what's driving your customer emotionally and what specific results they want to achieve.

  • Answer11:09

    Talk to at Least One Prospective Customer Every Day

    Talk to at least one prospective customer per day, ideally three or more. Do this earlier in the day since understanding customers deeply is essential for creating effective products and marketing.

  • Answer1:22

    Live Conversations Beat Surveys for Market Research

    Have live conversations with real prospective customers. This is quick because you can interact directly and get information from the source, and it's cheap because it only costs your time.

  • Answer4:56

    Start with Pre-Qualified Prospects Who Already Want Help

    Start with pre-qualified prospects who have already indicated they need help. People will answer personal questions when they believe it will help them get what they want. Join networking groups or read books like 'Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway' by Susan Jeffers.

  • Quotable1:35

    Customers Will Tell You What They Pay For — Free

    Your customers and your prospective customers, they will tell you for free what it is that they will pay money for if you'll go out and you'll ask them.

  • Quotable13:13

    Entering Existing Conversations to Build Deep Rapport

    When you enter into a conversation that's already happening, rather than trying to bring a new one, you get deeply into rapport.

  • Quotable11:30

    Understanding the Problem Makes the Solution Easy

    If you understand how to think about a problem, the solution becomes relatively easy to find and implement.

  • Quotable2:37

    The Hidden Secret of Information Marketing Success

    This is one of the big quote unquote secrets of success with information marketing.

  • Question4:12

    Overcoming Fear of Asking Customers Personal Questions

    How do I overcome fear of asking customers personal questions?

  • Question5:27

    Two Questions That Unlock What Customers Will Buy

    What are the two most important questions to ask customers?

  • Question1:04

    Fastest Way to Validate a Niche

    What's the fastest way to test if my niche will work?

  • Question11:46

    How Many Customers to Interview Each Day

    How many customers should I talk to each day?

  • Question0:30

    Why Most New Products and Businesses Fail

    Why do most new products and businesses fail?

  • Question13:36

    What Are Power Words and How to Use Them

    What are power words and how do I use them?

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Canonical Teachings

Why Most Products Fail and the Cost of Not Understanding Customers

Eben reveals the sobering statistics about product failure and traces the root cause to entrepreneurs creating products based on assumptions rather than customer reality. He contrasts the employee mindset with the entrepreneurial requirement to solve real customer problems.

The Power of Direct Customer Conversations

The fastest and most cost-effective way to understand your market is through live conversations with prospective customers. Eben explains why motivated prospects will freely share what they'll pay money for if you simply ask the right questions.

Overcoming the Fear Factor

Most entrepreneurs avoid customer conversations due to fear of rejection and social conditioning against asking personal questions. Eben provides practical strategies for overcoming these internal barriers, including specific resources and approaches.

The Two Critical Questions That Unlock Customer Psychology

Eben shares his proven framework for customer interviews: asking about their biggest fears/frustrations and their dream outcomes. These questions reveal both the emotional drivers and specific results that form the foundation of profitable products.

Entering the Customer's Mental Conversation

Rather than trying to pull customers into your conversation, successful entrepreneurs learn to enter the ongoing dialogue already happening in the customer's mind. This creates instant rapport and deeper understanding of their real needs.

Mining for Power Words That Sell

Eben reveals one of his most powerful secrets: identifying emotional 'power words' and phrases that emerge from multiple customer conversations. These words become the foundation for headlines, subject lines, and product titles that create instant connection and dramatically improve response rates.

Procedural frameworks taught here

Counterpoint 2

Claim:You should avoid asking personal questions because it's rude and might embarrass or cause pain to people

Reframe: People will gladly answer personal questions about their fears and desires if they believe it will help them get what they want - qualified prospects are actually joyful that someone wants to listen and understand

Claim:Success in business comes from showing up on time and doing good work, like in a job

Reframe: Business success comes from selling products to people who want to buy them - you must find people with needs and understand exactly what they want, not just do good work

Topics

Coaching Strategies

daily customer conversationscustomer interview questionsprospect qualificationpower word identificationmental conversation modelingdirect customer interviews

Business Frameworks

customer research methodologyfear-desire customer researchemotional language mappingpattern recognition methodology

Common Mistakes

product-market mismatchavoiding customer contact due to fearasking random people personal questions