5 Most useful Tips for Body Language 2020 Part 2 |David DeAngelo
This is actually David DeAngelo's body language training where he teaches specific body language techniques for attracting women. The episode includes demonstrations of posture, eye contact, composure, and physical positioning to signal confidence and create sexual attraction.
Key Moments
How to Use Body Language to Signal Confidence and Attraction -- A systematic approach to using body language that demonstrates high status and creates attraction
Body Language as a Projection of Inner Self-Image
Your body language is a projection of your inner self-image and social status
▶ 3:38
Full Composure at All Times: No Low-Status Signals Allowed
Maintain 100% composure at all times - don't let low status signals slip out
▶ 5:43
Let Her Orient to You Rather Than Following Her Body Language
Allow her to orient herself to you rather than following her body language
▶ 3:34
Holding Eye Contact as a Dominance and Confidence Signal
Don't be the first to break eye contact - it signals dominance and confidence
▶ 10:06
Watch Pupil Dilation to Gauge Interest
Watch pupil dilation to gauge interest - wide pupils mean she's taking in visual information
▶ 12:30
Relevant Clips23
- How-To
How to Use Body Language to Signal Confidence and Attraction -- A systematic approach to using body language that demonstrates high status and creates attraction
- Teaching▶ 12:30
Watch Pupil Dilation to Gauge Interest
Watch pupil dilation to gauge interest - wide pupils mean she's taking in visual information
- Teaching▶ 3:38
Body Language as a Projection of Inner Self-Image
Your body language is a projection of your inner self-image and social status
- Teaching▶ 10:06
Holding Eye Contact as a Dominance and Confidence Signal
Don't be the first to break eye contact - it signals dominance and confidence
- Teaching▶ 5:43
Full Composure at All Times: No Low-Status Signals Allowed
Maintain 100% composure at all times - don't let low status signals slip out
- Teaching▶ 3:34
Let Her Orient to You Rather Than Following Her Body Language
Allow her to orient herself to you rather than following her body language
- Teaching▶ 41:09
Playful Touch and the Bratty Little Sister Frame
Use touch to signal playfulness - get into 'bratty little sister' mode
- Teaching▶ 47:19
Lead Physically — Take Her Hand Without Asking
Lead physically - take her hand and lead rather than asking permission
- Teaching▶ 33:57
Plant Yourself and Let Her Come to You
Plant yourself and let her come to you rather than chasing her around
- Answer▶ 12:22
Reading Pupil Dilation as an Attraction Signal
Wide pupils mean she's trying to take in more visual information because she likes what she's seeing. Small pupils indicate she doesn't want to take in the information in front of her.
- Answer▶ 50:52
Eliminating Low-Status Nervous Habits From Your Body Language
Stop darting eyes, fidgeting, stumbling over words, tentative gestures, and nervous habits. Most importantly, don't look down at the floor like you're sad and depressed.
- Answer▶ 33:24
Lean Back and Let Her Come to You
Lean back, check her out from head to toe, and use the body language of 'I am being selective.' Plant yourself and let her come to you rather than chasing her around.
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- Answer
Hip Bumps, Knee Squeezes, Playful Push: Touch Done Right
Use playful touch like bumping with your hip, squeezing her knee, or pushing her gently toward obstacles while walking. Get into 'bratty little sister' mode and maintain a serious expression while being playful.
- Answer▶ 10:06
Don't Break Eye Contact First — Dominance Signals in Dating
Don't be the first to break eye contact, as this signals dominance and confidence. Eye contact contains status and power - when you break first, you give her higher status instantly.
- Quotable▶ 5:43
Composure as a Non-Negotiable Status Signal
keep composed at all times the whole time don't let low status self-image self-consciousness insecurity slip out at all
- Quotable▶ 3:51
Body Language as Projector and Projection Screen
your body language can be roughly thought of as a projection imagine a projector and a projection screen
- Quotable
Let Her Orient to You: Stop Looking to Women for Behavioral Cues
allow her to orient herself to you most men look to the woman in order to figure out how to behave
- Quotable▶ 28:29
Making Her Do Things She Doesn't Know She Wants
I'm gonna make you do things you don't want to do and are really gonna like
- Question▶ 33:10
Body Positioning When Meeting a Woman for the First Time
How should I position my body when first meeting a woman?
- Question▶ 39:13
Using Eye Contact to Project Confidence Around Women
How do I use eye contact to show confidence with women?
- Question▶ 71:21
What Pupil Dilation Tells You When Talking to a Woman
What does pupil dilation mean when talking to women?
- Question▶ 30:57
Body Language Mistakes That Kill Attraction Immediately
What body language mistakes turn women off?
- Question▶ 37:47
Touch as a Tool for Building Attraction Gradually
How do I use touch to build attraction?
Entities Touched
Concepts
Canonical Teachings
Canonical Answers
Expert: Mystery
World-renowned pickup artist, magician and illusionist who has dated supermodels and been featured in Saturday Night Magazine and New York Times
Summary
Foundation: Body Language Positioning and Composure
DeAngelo establishes that most men follow women's body language cues instead of leading with their own presence. He teaches the importance of maintaining complete composure and using body language as a projection of inner confidence and status.
Eye Contact and Reading Interest Signals
The training covers advanced eye contact techniques including not breaking contact first and reading pupil dilation. DeAngelo explains how sustained eye contact signals dominance while pupil changes indicate genuine interest levels.
Physical Touch and Playful Interaction
DeAngelo demonstrates specific touch techniques from playful hip bumps to strategic positioning. The focus is on creating attraction through confident physical leadership rather than seeking permission or approval.
Advanced Positioning and Leading Strategies
The final section covers how to position yourself so women orient to you, including specific scenarios like coffee shops and bars. Mystery joins as a guest expert to teach pre-selection and the three-phase attraction system.
Counterpoint
Claim: “Men should follow women's body language and take cues from how she's feeling”
Reframe: Stay strong, keep your power, and let the woman follow your body language instead
DeAngelo observes that men who are best with women do exactly the opposite of following - they maintain their position and let women orient themselves to them, like his friend who wouldn't even turn when his girlfriend came to kiss him
Claim: “Work on fixing body language symptoms like fidgeting or poor posture”
Reframe: Address the inner game problems that cause poor body language projection
DeAngelo explains body language is like a projector - the image on screen had to exist inside the projector first. Your self-image, social status and beliefs are projected into your body language, so fix the source not just the symptoms
Claim: “Ask permission before touching or getting physical with women”
Reframe: Lead physically without asking - take her hand, guide her, and move her where you want
DeAngelo demonstrates that asking 'can I give you a hug' or seeking permission signals weakness, while confidently leading physically by taking her hand to guide her through doors or pulling her close shows strength and protection
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