Goal setting doesn't work for most people because they don't like setting goals in the first place - most people prefer solving problems over setting goals
Bob Beal wrote 'Stop Setting Goals If You'd Rather Solve Problems' showing goal setting doesn't motivate most people. In live training seminars, when Eben asks who likes setting goals, only a few people raise hands, but most raise hands when asked who would rather solve problems.
We don't live in a simple cause-effect world - everything that happens has multiple causes, and every cause creates multiple effects
The human mind naturally looks for simple cause-effect relationships, but real success involves dozens, hundreds, or thousands of causes in different amounts, orders and combinations working together.
Success results from a combination of things set up in just the right way - every consistently successful person has systematically set up various things in their life that work together in concert
Every person who has created huge, consistent, long-term success and made a lot of money has set up multiple systems that work together, whether in financial, health, relationships, or contribution areas.
Emergence is the science of how a bunch of complex parts organize into a simple whole - examples include ant colonies, tidal waves, and humans
Scientists studying complex systems use the term emergence to describe how individual components create higher-order results. An ant colony with a million ants weighing 3-4 pounds can coordinate complex decisions using only 7-8 communication signals.
TeachingEmpowering▶ 12:40 Money is the result of setting up and doing a specific combination of the right things in the right order - money is an emergent property, not a simple cause-effect
Just like ant colonies and humans are emergent properties, money emerges from combining specific activities. Any financially successful rich person will tell you money is a byproduct of what they do, not the game itself.
TeachingEmpowering▶ 14:02 Money emerges when you create massive value for other people by taking away urgent pain or delivering massive pleasure, then set up systems so they give you money in return
Value must come first, then money. Joe Sugarman, who sold a billion dollars worth of BlueBlocker sunglasses through mail order and TV, explained that money isn't the real thing - it's just a symbol with no intrinsic value, while value is what actually expands.
Money has no intrinsic value anymore - it's just paper with no gold backing, but value can be traded for many things including money
Joe Sugarman explained that focusing on what you want in life expands it, but not with money because money isn't real - it's just numbers on a screen. A bar of gold can be traded for food, cars, computers, and money, but money itself becomes worthless quickly as seen with different currencies worldwide.
Expert InsightEmpowering▶ 17:18 A billion-dollar business was built by taking customer complaint calls for Fortune 500 companies - a perfect example of taking away urgent pain
Featured in Forbes magazine and the Forbes 400, an entrepreneur built a billion-dollar company from scratch by approaching Fortune 500 companies saying 'you hate getting all your customer complaint calls. I'll take them for you and do a great job handling them.'
TeachingEmpowering▶ 18:17 Find valuable opportunities by asking people about their fears, frustrations, worries, and what keeps them awake at night
Simple practice of asking business people, friends, and family 'what's your biggest fear or frustration?' and 'when you lay in bed at night and can't go to sleep, what are you thinking about?' provides clues for creating massive value.
TeachingEmpowering▶ 19:06 Create massive value first, then set up the system to get money - not the other way around
Trying to set up systems to get money before creating value leads to failure because you won't know what works and will get frustrated quickly. The sequence must be: create massive value, then set up systems for payment.
TeachingEmpowering▶ 19:52 Your current situation is the emergent result of all past decisions and actions combined - failure is also an emergent property
As people made each choice and took each action, they probably didn't realize it would combine to create their current result. Understanding this allows you to take responsibility, learn from failures, and create different results.
What we really want is not money itself, but the ability to get money anytime we want - that creates real lasting security
We only want money because it buys things and gives us power for security. Real security comes from learning the system to generate money on demand, not from accumulating money itself.