Non-verbal body language signals high status and confidence
Research shows that 93% of communication is non-verbal: 55% facial and body expression, 38% voice tone, and only 7% actual words. Women are naturally up to 10 times better at reading body language than men — they use these skills to quickly assess whether someone has the confidence and status they're attracted to. The signals that communicate low status are easy to identify and eliminate: darting eyes, fidgeting, stumbling over words, tentative gestures, nervous habits, and looking down at the floor. High-status body language is the opposite — lean back, plant yourself, let others come to you rather than chasing them. Use the body language of selectivity. Wide pupils signal genuine interest; small pupils signal disinterest. Authentic communication comes from developing real internal confidence and a strong self-image, not from learning scripted techniques that don't reflect who you actually are.
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Lean Back and Let Her Come to You
Lean back, check her out from head to toe, and use the body language of 'I am being selective.' Plant yourself and let her come to you rather than chasing her around.
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