Training Session2014-03-14

Ultimate Positive Focus Success Tip

Eben Pagan reveals why focusing on what you don't want sabotages your success and shares his proven positive focus technique. He demonstrates how goal visualization and visual collages helped him manifest his beachfront apartment and dream car.

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Teachings 4

  • The unconscious mind cannot process negative commands and only focuses on the core subject, making 'don't' statements counterproductive for goal achievement

    Demonstrated with the pink elephant example - when told 'don't imagine a pink elephant,' the mind still processes the image. Applied to habits: saying 'stop drinking' repeatedly programs the unconscious to focus on 'drinking, drinking, drinking.'

  • Visual goal collages create sustained focus and motivation by providing clear pictures of desired outcomes, leading to manifestation of specific goals

    Eben created collages with magazine cutouts including a beachfront apartment and specific car model. His current beachfront apartment and car match almost exactly what he visualized in his goal collages.

  • Successful focus requires three elements: building the muscle to focus for longer periods, knowing what to focus on, and maintaining emotional motivation through clear outcome visualization

    Eben outlines working in 50-minute focused chunks, selecting specific focus targets, and maintaining motivation through big picture outcome review before each work session.

  • Morning affirmations and visualizations set the compass and motivation for daily focused work sessions

    Eben recommends reviewing the big picture outcome each morning, then choosing specific focus targets for 50-minute work chunks, combining visualization with practical action.

Quotable Moments 3

  • If you focus on the thing that you don't want, your unconscious mind, it doesn't know how to get rid of the don't part. It only sees the thing that you're focusing on.

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  • All the stuff that I put into my goal collages eventually came true because I stayed so focused on bringing those things into my reality.

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  • If you don't know where you're going, then you don't have any motivation to do it.

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How to Use Positive Focus for Goal Achievement

A three-step system for maintaining productive focus and achieving specific outcomes

  1. 1

    Build Focus Muscle

    Practice working in 50-minute focused chunks to strengthen your ability to concentrate for extended periods

  2. 2

    Create Visual Goals

    Make a goal collage with pictures from magazines or internet printouts showing exactly what you want to achieve, and review it daily

  3. 3

    Set Daily Focus

    Each morning, review your big picture outcome for motivation, choose one specific thing to focus on, then work on it during your 50-minute session

Questions Answered

Why doesn't telling yourself to stop a bad habit work?

If you're trying to stop a negative habit and you're focused on that negative habit, like I got to stop drinking, stop drinking, stop drinking. All your unconscious mind hears is drinking, drinking, drinking, drink, drink, drink, drink, drink.

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Your unconscious mind can't process the 'don't' part and only focuses on the main subject. Saying 'stop drinking' repeatedly just programs your mind to think about drinking.

How do you create a goal collage for manifestation?

I'd take pictures of things that I cut out of magazines or I got on the internet and print them out, put them into a little collage and it doesn't have to be that pretty.

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Cut out pictures from magazines or print images from the internet showing your desired outcomes. Create a simple collage you can look at daily to stay focused on what you want to create.

What are the three elements needed for successful focus?

We not only need to have the strength and the ability to focus for a longer period of time, and we don't only need to know what to focus on, but we've got to have the inner motivation, the emotional motivation, and the logical motivation.

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Building the muscle to focus for longer periods, knowing what specifically to focus on, and maintaining emotional motivation through clear outcome visualization.

How long should focused work sessions be?

We're going to work on doing 50-minute chunks.

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Eben Pagan recommends working in 50-minute focused chunks to build your concentration muscle and maximize productivity.

Why is positive focus important for achieving goals?

If you don't know where you're going, then you don't have any motivation to do it.

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Positive focus gives you clear direction and motivation. Without knowing where you're going, you have no motivation to do the work needed to get there.

Summary

The Unconscious Mind Cannot Process Negatives

Eben reveals why focusing on what you don't want backfires completely. Using the pink elephant example and habit change scenarios, he demonstrates how the unconscious mind only sees the core subject and ignores negative commands. This fundamental insight explains why traditional willpower approaches to breaking bad habits often fail.

Goal Collages That Actually Manifest Results

Eben shares his personal success with visual goal creation, describing how simple magazine cutouts and internet printouts helped him manifest specific outcomes. His current beachfront apartment and car match almost exactly what he visualized years ago in his goal collages, proving the power of sustained visual focus.

The Three-Element Focus System for Maximum Results

Eben outlines his complete focus methodology combining strength building through 50-minute work chunks, strategic target selection, and emotional motivation through outcome visualization. He provides a practical daily routine of reviewing big picture goals each morning, selecting specific focus targets, then executing focused work sessions.

Ultimate Positive Focus Success Tip
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Counterpoint

Claim:Focus on stopping negative habits by repeatedly telling yourself what not to do

Reframe: Focus on the positive outcome you want to create, as the unconscious mind only processes the core subject and ignores negatives

Demonstrated with 'stop drinking' example - the mind only hears 'drinking, drinking, drinking' which becomes the programming that emerges when willpower is low

Key Points 4

The unconscious mind cannot process negative commands and only focuses on the core subject, making 'don't' statements counterproductive for goal achievement

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Visual goal collages create sustained focus and motivation by providing clear pictures of desired outcomes, leading to manifestation of specific goals

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Successful focus requires three elements: building the muscle to focus for longer periods, knowing what to focus on, and maintaining emotional motivation through clear outcome visualization

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Morning affirmations and visualizations set the compass and motivation for daily focused work sessions

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Topics

Coaching Strategies

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Business Frameworks

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Common Mistakes

focusing on negative outcomes