The new Wealth Eben Pagan p4
Eben Pagan addresses the crucial difference between differentiation and 'starting different' in business. He emphasizes shifting from an internal perspective to understanding what customers actually need and value, using examples from dating advice and tech companies.
Teachings 4
Think from inside the customer's head, not your own perspective when developing business strategy
Eben repeatedly corrects the questioner who was thinking from their own perspective rather than the customer's viewpoint, emphasizing this as 'one of the keys to success in business and life'
In any sizable marketplace, there's always a large group of people with problems not being addressed by existing solutions
Eben describes this as his 'irrational belief' and explains how Neil Strauss found this gap in dating advice by bringing pickup artist content to mainstream audiences through his book 'The Game'
Find the overlap between unmet customer needs and your personal passions for optimal business positioning
Eben specifically states 'if you can find the overlap with something that you have passion about, all the better' when discussing how to address unmet market needs
Being first to deliver a specific result or outcome in the customer's mind creates automatic differentiation
Eben cites Neil Strauss as the first to bring pickup artist content to mainstream audiences and Mystery as the first to do it on TV, showing how being first in a specific delivery method creates market position
Perspectives 1
Instead of trying to differentiate yourself from competitors, focus on starting different by addressing unmet customer needs
Eben contrasts Dell's custom computer building approach and Burger King's 'have it your way' positioning against McDonald's standardized model as examples of starting different rather than differentiating
Quotable Moments 3
“I think a better strategy than differentiation is to start different. So you don't need to go through differentiation. You're already different.”
— Eben Pagan“You're thinking from inside your head, from your perspective. You're in here. You're not out there asking what's important to them.”
— Eben Pagan“In any sizable marketplace, I have an irrational belief that there is a large group of people that have a problem, a frustration, pain, a desire, a need, a passion that is not being addressed by all of the companies, products, and options that they are aware of.”
— Eben Pagan
How to Start Different Instead of Differentiate
Eben Pagan's framework for creating market position by addressing unmet customer needs rather than competing with existing solutions
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Shift perspective
Stop thinking from your own perspective and start thinking from inside your customer's head about what's important to them
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Identify unmet needs
Look for problems, frustrations, or desires that people have that aren't being addressed by existing companies or solutions they're aware of
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Find passion overlap
Discover the intersection between unmet customer needs and areas you have genuine passion about
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Be first to solve
Position yourself as the first to deliver that specific result or outcome in the customer's mind
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Start different
Enter the market addressing the unmet need from the beginning rather than trying to differentiate after entry
Questions Answered
How do I differentiate myself in a crowded market
“I think a better strategy than differentiation is to start different. So you don't need to go through differentiation. You're already different.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 1:33
Instead of trying to differentiate, focus on starting different by identifying unmet customer needs in your market and being the first to address them.
What's the difference between differentiation and starting different
“Instead of differentiating, start different. So you don't need to go through differentiation. You're already different.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 1:33
Differentiation means trying to be different from competitors after entering a market. Starting different means identifying unmet customer needs and addressing them from the beginning, so you don't need to differentiate.
How do I think from my customer's perspective instead of my own
“You're thinking from inside your head, from your perspective. You're in here. You're not out there asking what's important to them.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 1:03
Shift focus from what makes you different to what problems your customers have that aren't being solved. Ask what's important to them rather than analyzing your competitors.
Are there opportunities in saturated markets
“In any sizable marketplace, market category, segment, however you want to think about it, I have an irrational belief that there is a large group of people, individual humans, that have a problem, a frustration, pain, a desire, a need, a passion that is not being addressed by all of the companies, products, and options that they are aware of.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 2:35
Yes, Eben believes that in any sizable marketplace, there are always groups of people with unmet needs that existing companies aren't addressing.
How do I find unmet needs in my market
“if you can find out what that is, then you can address it. And if you can find the overlap with something that you have passion about, all the better.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 4:07
Look for the overlap between customer problems that aren't being solved and areas you're passionate about. Focus on what people would love a solution for if they thought it was available.
Summary
The Differentiation Trap
A workshop participant struggles with market differentiation, thinking about personality as their differentiator. Eben identifies the core problem: thinking from an internal perspective rather than understanding what matters to customers.
Start Different vs Differentiate
Eben introduces his key framework of 'starting different' rather than trying to differentiate. He uses examples like Dell's custom computers and Burger King's customization to illustrate how companies can enter markets differently from the beginning.
Finding Unmet Market Needs
Eben explains his belief that every sizable market has unmet customer needs waiting to be addressed. He demonstrates this with examples from the dating advice industry, showing how Neil Strauss and Mystery found different ways to deliver similar content.
The Customer Perspective Shift
The conversation reveals the difficulty most entrepreneurs have in thinking from the customer's viewpoint. Eben emphasizes this perspective shift as fundamental to business success and life success.

Counterpoint
Claim: “You need to differentiate yourself from your competitors to succeed in business”
Reframe: Instead of differentiation, start different by addressing unmet customer needs that competitors aren't solving
Eben uses Dell's custom computer approach and Burger King's customization versus McDonald's standardization as examples of starting different rather than trying to differentiate after entering a market
Claim: “Focus on what makes you different from your competition”
Reframe: Think from inside the customer's head about what's important to them, not from your own perspective
Eben repeatedly redirects the questioner from thinking about their own perspective to considering what matters to customers, calling this shift 'one of the keys to success in business and life'
Key Points 5
Instead of trying to differentiate yourself from competitors, focus on starting different by addressing unmet customer needs
▶ 1:33Think from inside the customer's head, not your own perspective when developing business strategy
▶ 1:03In any sizable marketplace, there's always a large group of people with problems not being addressed by existing solutions
▶ 2:35Find the overlap between unmet customer needs and your personal passions for optimal business positioning
▶ 4:07Being first to deliver a specific result or outcome in the customer's mind creates automatic differentiation
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