Get Alignment In Life - 5 Minute Proven Exercise
Eben Pagan reveals how inner conflicts drain energy like a misaligned car and teaches a powerful 5-minute exercise to identify where your priorities and time don't match. This simple two-column assessment exposes the gaps between what matters most to you and how you actually spend your time.
Teachings 3
Getting into alignment creates feelings of freedom, flow, and things working as they need to work
Eben describes the specific sensations people experience when aligned: freedom, flow, and natural functionality, contrasting this with the energy drain of misalignment
The two-column assessment reveals massive gaps between priorities and actual time allocation
Exercise requires writing 5 most important life priorities in left column and 5 activities you spend most time doing in right column, with Eben noting the lists often look like they came from completely different people
Honest assessment of time allocation includes activities like worrying and working hard, not just productive tasks
Eben specifically mentions that the five activities people spend most time doing may include worrying, working hard, or traveling, emphasizing complete honesty in the assessment
Perspectives 1
Inner friction and conflicts create energy drain similar to a car with misaligned wheels
Eben explains that a car wheel out of alignment by half an inch causes tires to wear 2-3 times faster, reduces control, wears out parts, stresses the front end, and reduces gas mileage
Quotable Moments 2
“As a person, being out of alignment really robs you of a lot of energy. And when you get yourself into alignment, you start to feel this feeling of freedom of flow of things just working the way that they need to work.”
— Eben Pagan“In a lot of cases, when you look at your list, you'll see that it's almost as if these two lists came from two completely different people because they're that far out of alignment.”
— Eben Pagan
How to assess your life alignment in 5 minutes
A simple two-column exercise to identify gaps between your priorities and time allocation
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Prepare materials
Get a blank piece of paper
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Create two columns
Draw a line down the middle of the paper from top to bottom
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List priorities
On the left side, write the 5 things in life that are most important to you
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List time allocation
On the right side, write the 5 activities you spend the most time doing - be completely honest
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Compare and assess
Notice the differences between the two lists and identify which important things need more time
Questions Answered
How do you identify if your life priorities are aligned with your time
“Draw a line down the middle of the paper, top to bottom. And now over on the left side, what I'd like you to do is write a list of the things in life that are most important to you. Now, over on the right side, what I'd like you to do is write down the five activities that you spend the most time doing.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 1:35
Draw a line down the middle of a paper. On the left, write 5 things most important to you in life. On the right, write the 5 activities you spend the most time doing. Compare the lists to see misalignment.
What causes energy drain and inefficiency in personal productivity
“As a person, being out of alignment really robs you of a lot of energy. And when you get yourself into alignment, you start to feel this feeling of freedom of flow of things just working the way that they need to work.”
— Eben Pagan▶ 1:03
Inner friction and conflicts act like misaligned car wheels, draining energy and reducing effectiveness. Being out of alignment robs you of energy, while alignment creates freedom and flow.
How to do a 5 minute life alignment exercise
“Draw a line down the middle of the paper, top to bottom. Separate the paper with a line down the middle. Write down whatever the five things and be really honest with yourself. What are the five things that you spend the most time doing?”
— Eben Pagan▶ 1:35
Get a blank paper and draw a line down the middle. Left side: write 5 things most important to you in life. Right side: write 5 activities you spend most time doing. Be honest about time allocation and compare the lists.
Summary
The Hidden Cost of Inner Misalignment
Eben reveals that most people carry more inner friction and conflicts than they realize, comparing this to a car with misaligned wheels. Just as wheel misalignment causes faster tire wear, reduced control, and decreased efficiency, personal misalignment drains energy and reduces effectiveness in life.
The Power of Getting Into Alignment
When you achieve alignment, you experience freedom, flow, and things working naturally. Eben introduces a practical exercise to identify misalignment by comparing your stated priorities with how you actually spend your time.
The Two-Column Assessment Exercise
The exercise requires drawing a line down paper and listing your 5 most important life priorities on the left and your 5 most time-consuming activities on the right. Eben emphasizes complete honesty, noting that time-consuming activities might include worrying or unfocused work, and that the resulting lists often appear to come from completely different people.
Counterpoint
Claim: “People assume they're spending time on what matters most to them”
Reframe: Most people have massive misalignment between their stated priorities and actual time allocation
The two-column exercise reveals lists that look like they came from completely different people, showing the gap between priorities and time spent
Key Points 4
Inner friction and conflicts create energy drain similar to a car with misaligned wheels
Getting into alignment creates feelings of freedom, flow, and things working as they need to work
▶ 1:03The two-column assessment reveals massive gaps between priorities and actual time allocation
▶ 1:35Honest assessment of time allocation includes activities like worrying and working hard, not just productive tasks
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